Why Hooking Up With Multiple Women Will Get You Nowhere

Why You Should Be A One-Woman Man

Being a one woman man will transform your whole life.

And some guys might call this old school, but hear me out.

When you dedicate yourself to one incredible woman, you’re no longer bogged down from dating.

You have someone who supports you rather than gambling on multiple partners.

And as a result, you’re finally free to focus on the important things, because you’ve got someone that can provide everything you need.

Yeah, I used to be a player too. But that all changed when once I realized the value of a great relationship.

I escaped the drama and bullshit that came with the player lifestyle, and I was finally free to focus on business and money instead of dating and hooking up.

You can choose to listen to me or not.

But if you’re jumping from woman to woman, you should at the very least know what it’s potentially doing to your mental health.

More Women More Problems

A lot of guys are in denial about this.

They think since they’re smashing every night that they’re winning. But once they actually find a real woman, they realize they were never fulfilled.

Because you can for real become thot blinded.

That’s when you think you feel fulfilled because of how many girls you get with when in reality you’re going through turmoil.

When you manage multiple emotional connections, it quickly becomes exhausting.

The stress of managing expectations and even spinning webs of lies takes over your whole life.

And trust me, when you’re dealing with having relationships with 5 women at once, you don’t have a single minute to focus on business and money.

Even the National Institute of Health showed a correlation between a high number of sexual partners and an increased risk of substance dependence disorders in men.

The Real Diminishing Returns

Even after all that I be there are still some guys reading this thinking, “nah I like being a player.”

I get it. Hooking up with steady booty calls is most guys’ dream.

But it can have serious repercussions on mental health for both you and whoever you’re sleeping with.

Because believe me, I’ve been in your shoes. Hooking up with multiple women, and not feeling guilty about it because “we set the expectations up front”, right?

You think she’s totally cool with it but trust me, even when women verbally SAY that to you, there’s a 90% chance she’s actually not cool with it.

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve hooked up with a girl and she said she was down for whatever only for her to text me essay-long texts a month later asking “what are we?”

But it’s not her fault. Humans just shouldn’t be hooking up like that anymore.

We’ve emotionally evolved. The excuse that we’re all just animals is bullshit.

So by being a player, odds are you’re also screwing with multiple women’s mental health, even if you set clear boundaries, and as a result your own mental health will suffer too.

You’ll end up feeling guilty, you’ll get bogged down by texts, and you’ll end up trying to escape these mini relationships you didn’t even know you had developed.

It’s a huge mess, like a spiderweb that you get roped into.

Find Your True Freedom

Now, some of you might be thinking, "But Brandon, what about freedom? What about variety?"

Look, I get it. That initial spark of a new connection can be exciting. But here's the thing.

True freedom is finally breaking free of the endless cycle of dating.

The ability to breathe a breath of fresh air not having to worry about jealousy, cheating, or competition.

It means no more wasting mental energy on texting multiple women, keeping track of dates, and dealing with the emotional rollercoaster of it all.

With one queen, you can build trust, open communication, and a level of comfort that frees you to focus on what truly matters, which is conquering your goals and becoming the best version of yourself.

The BMM Takeaway

The key here is to focus on quality interactions, not chasing quantity.

Look for women who share your values, who inspire you to be better, and who challenge you to grow.

When you find that spark, that genuine connection with a high-value woman, then you can start building something real and lasting.

If you haven’t found the right woman yet, keep looking.

A high value woman will be attracted to a high value man, so she won’t be attracted to you if you’re still a low value boy just trying to smash.

Reflect in yourself who you think you deserve as a partner, and she’ll show up.